Loving = Hating = Loving

So much for being polite Lin.

First things first. Would girls like a guy if a guy WASNT a guy?

Imagine if a boy stuck to you like glue, and wanted to see you day in day out, never left your side, and would get mad if you hung out with the girls.
Would you still like him?

What if a guy didnt have his posse, his best friends, the buddies that would stick with him through thick and thin, and all he wants is to see you.
Would you still like him?

What if a guy didnt like football, didnt like doing "guy" things, didnt like partying like it was 1999, stayed at home all day and made collages of pictures of "you and him" and posted them up on Facebook with captions that read "Me and my lovely bubu".
Would you still like him?

Imagine that perfect guy with his WHOLE LIFE revolving around you. You being the centre of the universe, and he lives solely to please you.
Would you still like him?

I doubt it...

Girls like guys for the same reason girls HATE guys. If anything, I would love to be there 24/7 for her, to pamper her, to give her massages at 3am when her feet hurt, and to tuck her into bed with a kiss on the forehead. But repetition breeds routine. And routine kills excitement. And lack of excitement kills a relationship!

So give us a break. We work hard, we play hard, and we love even harder.

Thats why girls love to hate, and hate to love.


Gin "The Antidote"

Screw you MEN!

Whoever said that life was fair, should get that few extra hours of sleep, WAKE UP and re-phrase that statement. Life is only fair when you make choices that are best for ONLY you, you and yourself. Selfishness more like it.

When you, as a man, decide to set a few various other things as your priorities, say, your heroic best friend, your idiotic football matches and your "i will die for them" buddies – one piece of advise; do not expect your girl to worship the ground you walk on. Because you’re NOT worth it. Simple.

I still can’t figure out why men even bother giving these threads of empty promises...

I’ll love you more everyday. More than yesterday.

When Im not with you, I’ll miss you even more.

You’re the most important thing to me. More important that everything else.

LOAD.OF.BULLSHIT. Two years down the road and all you say is "I'm so sick of your girly nonsense". Are you saying that you're nonsense-intolerable now? Oh yeah, that explains why you spend the 720 hours watching footie, hoping you'd one day turn into a Christiano Ronaldo. How non-nonsensical of you.

After all is said and done, I realized I've had enough of this whole, cruel, male-female thing. The L word? Eww. Fantasies are merely fantasies, and they should stay where they belong – in books. Do NOT for once try to hope for a man as unconditionaly loving and giving as Edward Cullen – it does NOT, I repeat, it does NOT exist.

Live with the hard fact that men are selfish, ego-maniacs, demanding, heartless and brainless creatures. Love them. Or leave them.

^^lil'Lin