Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Loving = Hating = Loving

So much for being polite Lin.

First things first. Would girls like a guy if a guy WASNT a guy?

Imagine if a boy stuck to you like glue, and wanted to see you day in day out, never left your side, and would get mad if you hung out with the girls.
Would you still like him?

What if a guy didnt have his posse, his best friends, the buddies that would stick with him through thick and thin, and all he wants is to see you.
Would you still like him?

What if a guy didnt like football, didnt like doing "guy" things, didnt like partying like it was 1999, stayed at home all day and made collages of pictures of "you and him" and posted them up on Facebook with captions that read "Me and my lovely bubu".
Would you still like him?

Imagine that perfect guy with his WHOLE LIFE revolving around you. You being the centre of the universe, and he lives solely to please you.
Would you still like him?

I doubt it...

Girls like guys for the same reason girls HATE guys. If anything, I would love to be there 24/7 for her, to pamper her, to give her massages at 3am when her feet hurt, and to tuck her into bed with a kiss on the forehead. But repetition breeds routine. And routine kills excitement. And lack of excitement kills a relationship!

So give us a break. We work hard, we play hard, and we love even harder.

Thats why girls love to hate, and hate to love.


Gin "The Antidote"

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